Imibonano mpuzabitsina cyangwa mundimi zamahanga sex nimwe mungingo zidakunzwe kuganirwaho cyane murwanda. Nubwo bamwe bagira isoni zo kuba babiganiraho ningenzi cyane kumenya akamaro ko gukora imibonano mpuzabitsinda, kumenya ibibi byimibonano mpuzabitsina ndetse no kumenya uburyo bwa nyabwo bwo kuyikora nibindi byose bijyanye nimibonano mpuzabitsina.
ABANTU BATEJERA IKI KUMIBONANO MPUZABITSINA ?
Abantu benci batekerazako kuryoherwa cyangwa kwishima mugihe kimibonano mpuzabitsina bitandukanyw cyane kubagabo nabagore. Bityo bikaba bivugakwo abagabo bashobora gukontorola inyiyumviro byabo mugihe cyimibonano mpuzabitsina kurusha abagore.
Ubushakatsi bwakorewe muri Leta zunze ubumwe z´Amerika bwagaraje ko abagore ( abakobwa ) bo mkuri Amerika bagaragaza ibyiyumviro byayo mugihe kimibonano kurusha abagabo. Bwagaragaje kandi ko abagabo batekera cyane mugihe kimibonano aho kugaragaza ibyiyumviro byabo. Gusa ubu bushakatsi bwerekana ko ibi byose biterwa naho umuntu aba, umuco yarerewemo ndetse nibitekerezo asanze yifitemo kubyerekeye imibonano mpuzabitsina
BAMWE MUBANTU BIFUZA KUBA BAGIRANA IMIBONANO NABANTU BAKUNDA GUSA
Mubihugu byateye imbere cyane usanga gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina ari ibintu bisanzwe bityo ugasanga hari abayikora kugirango bishimishe gusa batitaye kubo bayikorana. İbi usanga bitandukanye cyane nibyo tubana mubihugu nku Rwanda kuko usanga abantu benci bifuza gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina nabantu bakunda cyangwa se arukugirango bagaragaze urukundo rwabo nuwo mayikora. Muri make imyumvire yo gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina usanga itandukanye mubihugu bitandukanye bigendeye kumuco wibyo bihugu.
Bamwe usanga batekera ko gukora imibona mpuzabitsina numuntu mudakundana bishobora kuba byatuma ubakunda nyuma abandi bagatekerezako ugomba kuba ukunda umuntu mbere yo gukorana nawe imibonano mpuzabitsina.
Ubushakatsi bwakozwe mumwaka wa 2002 bwagaraje ko hari isano riri hagati yo gushaka imibonano mpuzabitsina no gukundano. Bwagaraje ko bimwe mubice byubwonko butuma umuntu ashyukwa bifitanye itumanaho ( connection ) nibice byubwonko bituma umuntu akunda undi.
Gusa igice igitangaje nuko igice cyubwonko kitwa Stratium gikora cyane mugihe kimibonano mpuzabitsina no mugihe cyurukondo iki gice ninacyo gishinzwe gutuma umuntu ashaka ibintu muburyo burenze urugero ibyo bita mururimi rwicyongereza Addiction.
Bamwe mubantu bavugako urukondo ntaho ruhuriye nimibonano bityo ugasanga bavugako kuba wifuza gukorana imibonano numuntu bisobanurako utamukunda gusa igitangaje nuko utitaye kubitekerezo bitandukanye bya buri wese ibice byubwonko bitera gushaka imibona ari bimwe kuri buri muntu wese.
Ubushakatsi bukomeza kugaragazo hari ibyiza nibibi muburyo umuntu yiyumva nyuma yo gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina.
Dore bimwe mubyiza
1. Kwishima no kunezerwa
2.kugabanya umunaniro wubwonko ( stress release )
3.Kwiyumva nkumuntu ukunzwe...
Dore bimwe mubibi
1. Rimwe narimwe wiyumva nkuri kivumwa mu muco
2. Kugira İsoni
ESE NIKI GITUMA UMUNTU ASHAKA GUKORA IMIBONANO MPUZABITSINA ?
Ubushakashatsi bukomeza kugaragazako gushaka gukora imibona mpuza bitsina biterwa nama hormone amwe muriyo akaba azwi nka Testosteron ndetse na Oestrogen. Kwifuza umuntu ko mwakorana imibonano ( Gushyukwa ) byaba biterwa na hormone zitwa Dopamin, Norepinefrin ndetse na Serotonin.
Kwiyumvamo umuntu cyangwa gukunda umuntu byo biterwa na hormone zitwa Oxytocin ndetse na Vasopressin.
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